Why is Peer Pressure so Powerful?

 

Peer groups have so much influence, especially with adolescents, because, no matter how inappropriate it seems to adults, belonging to a group really does give something significant to the young person. Peer groups provide a place where children feels accepted, where they feel good about themselves and where they feel they will be understood and where their self-esteem is enhanced. Some psychologists also point out that life becomes simpler when we conform to expectations. Young peopole tend to gravitate toward other young people with the same problems and in the same situations as themselves and where they feel they will be understood and accepted. There is a very, very strong need to satisfy that thirst for unity and for acceptance. The feeling of belonging is a very powerful force that can outweigh ties to church, school, family, or community.

 

Why do People Give in to Peer Pressure?

Some kids give in to peerpressure because they want to be liked, to fit in or because they worry that other kids might make fun of them if they don't go along with the group. Otheres go along because they are curious to try something new that others are doing. The idea that everyone is doing it can influence some kids to leave their better judgement ,or thier common sese behind.